Sunday, March 4, 2018

Death, Grief and our Lenten Journey




During the season of Lent, we are asked to look at our relationship with God and to use the forty days of Lent as a time to draw closer to God and Christ Jesus.  For many years, I found the Lenten season to be an abstract thought.  How could I use a time set aside by the church to get closer to God?  Isn’t that really what our entire life is supposed to be about?  So why take forty days each year to try and accomplish that lifelong goal?  It wasn’t until the separation from my wife that I began to move from abstract to concrete thoughts.  It wasn’t until I walked in to a Lenten series at a church that I realized how much I needed the Lenten Season in my life.  The congregation was studying C.S. Lewis’ The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe as their theme for the Lenten season.  Before the series, I felt C.S. Lewis was an author of children’s books.  Little did I know that he is also a modern day theologian writing in a manner that allowed everyone to understand Jesus’ death and resurrection.  If you have never read the book or watched the movie through a theological lens, I implore you to this Lenten season.  A powerful part of the story concerns death and the grief it brings along with it.  (Spoiler alert) The death of Aslan brings great sorrow to Narnia.  Yet his sacrificial death also gives hope to all inhabitants of Narnia.  It is in that moment that I began to understand Lent. 

In Lent, we are called to examine our lives, to see how death can bring about new life not just for us but the world around us.  In the death and resurrection of Jesus, all of creation is given new life.  It is only through the dark and dreary sadness of Good Friday that we are able to celebrate the Son-rise of Easter Morning.  So it is in our own lives as well.  It seems that no matter where we turn we easily find the dark and dreary sadness of death and grief similar to Good Friday.  For those of us left reeling from a death, filled with sadness and grief, it is hard to imagine that Easter Sunday will ever arrive.  C.S. Lewis, in A Grief Observed, describes the time after the death of his beloved wife.  Unlike the inhabitants of Narnia whose sorrow was lifted shortly after Aslan’s death, Lewis was unable to understand the why in his grief.  Discussing God during both good and bad times, Lewis says this about the bad times.  “But go to Him (God) when your need is desperate, when all other help is vain, and what do you find? A door slammed in your face, and a sound of bolting and double bolting on the inside. After that, silence.”   Even Lewis, a man of great faith, could not see or hear God in his death and grief.  I believe that many of us have similar thoughts, Where is God when we need God the most?  The reality is that all we are able to see with our earthly eyes is the darkness.  Yet, for God, who sees and knows all things, there is the knowledge that Easter Sunday, the day when death is destroyed forever, is coming.  It is only by our faith that we are able to believe and see that Easter Sunday is coming. On that day, even though the pain of Good Friday is still fresh in our minds, we see a new future being written, a future where death has been conquered, where the love of God for all of creation breaks forth into this world and where we are able to let go of the dreary sadness and welcome the bright new day. 

It is only after walking through darkness that we are able to see the light.  It is during the season of Lent that some of us walk through darkness in order that on Easter Morning, we are able to see the great light of the risen Christ shining new life into our broken grieving hearts.  Only then might we be able to see that rather than slamming the door on our face and being silent, God has been journeying with us throughout the forty days of Lent, holding us close and loving us even when we were not able to be loved.  May your Lenten journey be a Holy one in which you are continually being called into God’s loving redemptive embrace.

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